Well people always ask me how I get everything done in a day! For the most part there is a side of me that says stopping at any time during the day is lazy, not sure where i got this notion so form when I wake up until I finally fall asleep I am doing something, lately it has been wedding stuff, homework, substituting at the local schools, being on the booster club board,plus coaching little league and going on all the high school trips. Of course this leaves little time for sleep and no me time, this last week I was on the verge of total exhausting when I was talking with a very good friend she asked me if I had always been that responsible and that busy and as far back as I could remember the answer was yes. She asked me why? I had no idea she asked me if I thought that is was my job to do everything for everybody and I said yes, she reminded me that there are others that will step up and do things It is not my job to do everything. so with that in mind I had to give up coaching little league that made me really cry but after 12 years it is time for someone else. The next few days were so stress free it made me see how much pressure I had been putting on myself. I also have given up the boosters; I will help if they call me but not be in charge next year. I have realized in the past few days that life does not have to be on constant whirl of activity that people should be able to sit and relax and have ME time that is what I am going to do have some ME time (well right after the wedding)